Here's how: grab a blank page and write at the top, "Dear (name of the person or thing you're dedicating this to). There’s this feeling that I’m blindly trusting and holding onto I can’t just walk away without giving it my best. I love you more than anybody in the world… I love you for millions and millions of things, clocks and vampires and dirty nails and squiggly paintings and lovely hair and being dizzy and falling dreams. It seems like we don't talk at all anymore. But tomorrow, or the day after tomorrow, or some other day, everything will be good between us. Even my husband said it is too late for me to do anything to change my life. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years. And I just wanted to love you. Dearest Love, We have known each other for a while now and I would like to believe that we both have respect towards each other. I love you with every inch of me. You on your worse day appeals to me more than others at their best. And just like that, I was benched . Don’t want to lose you (jealous and regretful) My dear, You can imagine how hard it is for me to write this little note, specially because I’m starting with an apology. But there’s something that tells me this could be something. He feels like he doesn't know if he wants to be an empty nester with me. I know there are days whereby you sit and wonder about how much I love you and what you mean to me. I know what I have to do and I know what I want to do but have no motivation to do it. He's very athletic and I'm not, so we really don't have many common interests. I’m 36 and have no prospects whatsover. The moment he reads that you believe he's wrong, he'll shut down and anything you've written after that statement won't be absorbed by him at all. I just wanted you to care. I honestly don’t know who you are on a soul level, or beneath the front that you have with everyone. Everything else is just extra — it's more than the necessary minimum. Shutterstock Falling for someone might be painful, but if you've noticed that literally falling doesn't bother you as much anymore, it could be a big sign you're in love. Love could be sweet and soft and delicate, just like you. Love could be as gentle as your caress on my cheek. Ever since you came into my life, my life has changed; there is this feeling that never existed in me, now it does. Four years and two kids later, I am different. If you feel that your husband isn't paying attention to you the way he used to or you are struggling with a conflict that you two are currently working through, don't start your letter by accusing him of anything negative. But it seems as if I am incredibly wrong, you don't respect and I'm not sure if you ever did. That's a love letter. And with you now, life is full of expectancies, adventures and pleasurable experiences. The intense exchange of looks, where I know your heart was beating as fast as mine. If you don’t love me or feel the same way, that’s one thing. Do you know that I was not around the other day you came around? You are my world and everything I would ever want in life. When I say can’t do it anymore, I’m not talking about being suicidal, I’m talking about feeling physically, mentally, and emotionally dead, to the point where you can just lay in bed for hours staring at the ceiling not realizing the time that has gone by. You pursued me until I was wrapped so tightly around your finger that you didn't have to try anymore. I guess you’re right: I’ve been overdoing it a little bit, maybe I’ve been demanding too much of your attention and getting on your nerves. I know you felt it too. I need to focus on getting back to where I feel happy and at peace with myself and my life. I just wanted to let you know I love you with all that I am." You have no motivation to do anything. You enjoyed your victory full of my tears. End there if you want. Can you please give us a chance to see what the future holds for us. I honestly feel like you never will. I've found that love for oneself is all that you really need. It is hard to be with the one you don’t like, and I understand that feelings do grow. You make me feel like a princess--you treat me like a woman longs to be treated. Before I met you, life was miserable and sadness. I ask myself many times throughout the day "why am I still with How Much You Mean To Me Letter. One pursues and one tries to be more free. #62: When things break, we call a repair person to fix them. You ignore me in every way until you need or want something, I'm just convenient for you. I promise to show you round to my world. And sometimes you feel like you just can’t do it anymore. I want to scream: ‘Where is the man I fell in love with?’ Stop the pattern before it causes real damage. Now that a heart is broken, I honestly don’t know who to call! You were supposed to be my chance at love. How couldn't I trust my heart to you? – Dylan Thomas. Somewhere inside of me there will always be the person I am tonight. We don’t need to consider it’ll eventually us, but here are some signs your husband doesn’t love you anymore. I have been stressed out and on edge with everyone around me. I want this to be over, this feeling. Not anymore. i don’t know whether I should have done things differently but I still love you baby. ... You don't feel pain as strongly. The more we talked, the stronger my feelings grew. He has problems at work, and he has no time for love right now. At this age, haven’t achieved anything in terms of career life. Even the things you don't appreciate or like about yoruself. Thank you for the flowers on special occasions, for taking me dancing (even though you claim to have two left feet), for going on long walks with me, for opening doors for me and pulling out my chair. He has a stressful job, and provides for almost all of the financial needs of our family. Apart from that, scientists name specific words or language constructions that can ruin any relationships, or they can signal that your partner doesn't love you anymore. You have been the guiding light and I would be lost if I don’t have you. deep deep in my heart I still feel that you miss me.. The way I felt about you just wasn’t enough, nothing I did made a difference. God knows I wanted you to let me in. And I need to know you can handle that and that you'll still love me. I don’t want to feel this anymore. It’s like looking directly into your core and seeing how truly vulnerable you can be; laughing with me yet hoping I won’t break your heart. I would rather stay with you even if you don’t love me than stay without you. I genuinely want you to see how it is like to be my lover. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I would change anything about our lives together, especially anything about our two precious babies, but I need you to know that I am not the same. It feels like I have known you for ages. Don’t get me wrong, love can be manifested in such exciting moments. Two years in he became abusive he would throw me down and hold me on ground and lock me in the bathroom, and then we talked about that and things kind of slowed down so over … Things have really worsened over the past few months. I don’t ask you to love me always like this, but I ask you to remember. You are special to me baby. What you think it means: He needs some more time to accept the fact that he now has a treasure like me. I don’t feel like living anymore. I hope so, because I feel it and experience it every day. If there is a way I could tell the whole world how much you mean to me, I would. #63: You told me goodbye and that you’d be gone for good. I have tried so hard to believe that one day you will realize how much I love you, and will realize how much you love me too. Dear Sweetheart, I don’t know where to start, all I know is I love you so much. You are a gift from God who has graced my life with all the love. See the pattern when it happens, acknowledge how you contribute to it and how you make your partner feel. That’s a common pattern couples fall into. Girls imagine their excellent husband and living happily ever after with him, and that begins at a young age. Knowing you would never see me as more than a friend felt like you were ripping my heart from my chest. I still feel like we will seem up together but right now we don’t talk. In fact, when I think twice, I actually see that you were jealous of me. Don’t be curious anymore. Or the way you reach over in your still sleep-fogged state and pull me close to you as if you cannot keep me close enough. But that was too much for you. You were jealous of all the friends I had and of my successful life. "Why I Love You" Letter #3. But through you, I learned that love can also be quiet and calm. You're able to withstand things even more than before. The pressure is often more than I can bear. Can you see why I love you? But if you feel like writing more, don't let me stop you. I thought that I might not have had the guts to write it on paper, but here I am, writing you this love letter just to let you know that there isn’t another woman on this planet who could love me the way you do. It can be as serene as your face when you’re slumbering through one of our movie marathons. I wanted you to want me more than anything in my precious little world. I want to cheer you up with true love, so, don’t doubt me anymore if you can. I felt that I was losing you the last time I left. I cried over you, which was a big deal. Or simply the way you look at me when we laugh; laughing with you is my favorite. You’re the ocean that flows through my spirit; you’re the star in my sky; and you’re my light in the darkness. I don’t cry myself to sleep any more, my tears don’t get me anywhere, no one can hear. 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